PARTY THEME: HOST A GARDEN MAKEOVER!

It’s spring! Finally! Everyone is itching to get outside but there’s the task of cleaning up after a long winter to handle before you’re ready for outdoor entertaining. Why not combine the two? Make spring’s outdoor projects fun with a garden makeover party! Friends show up with plants, flowers, and new garden accessories to ring in spring. It’s the perfect party for a birthday, garden club, Mother’s Day or just to celebrate the arrival of warm weather. Anyone would love the gift of a few extra hands to make fast work of outdoor spring cleaning chores.

Our party was to celebrate a friend’s birthday. After a minimal amount of gardening, it was time to get on with the party itself. We wanted to keep it simple since most of us were squeezing a morning of garden party girlfriend fun in between shuttling kids to t-ball practice and our own spring cleaning chores. This is the perfect party theme for a birthday, Mother's Day, housewarming, neighborhood party, or even a bridal shower for the happy couple.

From the food to the decorations, it was all easy, inexpensive and really fun. Check out the big flower cupcakes served in cheery green clay pots. They were a big hit and really cheap--- under $0.50 each. The delightful ceramic toadstool “favor” centerpiece added a touch of whimsy and a pop of bright color to the table—plus every guest got to take some home for their own garden. So grab your girlfriends, some gardening gloves, and take this party outside to the garden-no matter what the occasion may be!

Martie Duncan hosting a garden makeover

 THE FOOD 

We wanted to make sure there was nothing for the birthday girl to do but enjoy the fun. Everything was made in advance so there was only minimal assembly required at our party location. I wrapped each plate in plastic wrap and put them into the refrigerator so we simply had to remove the plastic and add the dish to the waiting place setting when we were ready for lunch. Ice down the beverages in advance so there is something cold to drink when everyone arrives. We set up the bar on a garden wall so we didn’t have to bring additional tables outside. Always try to use what you have available to minimize your expense and your effort.

THE DECORATIONS

I built the party theme around adorable ceramic garden toadstools from JJ Potts. Everyone loved them! As much as I don’t like most craft projects—this centerpiece was fun to do. Cheap clay pots from the craft store were painted a bright shade of green to compliment the toadstool theme we were working with. Use acrylic paint (about $1.29) and a small foam brush. Clear spray paint will add shine and seal the finish. Don’t paint the inside of the pot. Once they dry, fit floral foam into the pots and insert a small dowel about 12” or so in length into the center of the larger pot. Fit the smaller pot onto the dowel so it will stay in place. You can always use only one pot if your table is small. Hide the foam with moss from the craft store and add the toadstools. The entire project took an hour. The “gardeners” each took several toadstools home as a thank you.

Two squares of burlap ($1.99 per yard) made a perfect tablecloth for the party’s theme. There’s no need to hem, just cut to the size you need and pull one thread on each cut edge to produce a slightly frayed look. The chargers for the place settings were simply green paper plates with a fluted edge that looked just like lily pads. We added green and white melamine plates and used plastic margarita glasses to serve the cantaloupe. A metal hanging basket filled with moss and bright gerbera daisies was hung from the center of the tent with ribbon to complete the decor.

ENTERTAINMENT

The gardening was the entertainment at this party. We put on some music and had a great time catching up with each other as we dug in the dirt. In just a few minutes, all of the flowers were in place. Even if you only have a tiny terrace or a balcony, make a container garden, herb garden, or freshen up the flower boxes, this is such a fun get-together with friends. You can use this theme for a neighborhood or school party, too. Just change the flower theme for vegetables!

Summer is filled with holidays and lots of occasions to throw a party but you’ll find that once you spruce up your space, you won’t need a reason to have friends over and take the party outside. Thanks to Arden from Arden Photography for the fantastic party photos!

PARTY THEME: HOST A MOTHER & DAUGHTER AFTERNOON TEA PARTY

Remember when your mom did something special with just you and made a big fuss over it? The day my mom and I went to a fancy “dress up” afternoon tea is a still a very fond memory for me even though she made my hair look like a big doughnut on top of my head. With Mother’s Day just around the corner, why not host a Mom and Me tea party to make some memories of your own? This is a great party idea for mothers and daughters of all ages. A tea party isn’t expensive and the results can be priceless—the memories truly do last a lifetime.

Take a look at these pictures from a tea party hosted by a women’s group. The annual event is designed to give busy mothers an opportunity to spend quality time with their young daughters. This family affair was a fashion affair, too. Guests arrived wearing color coordinated outfits complete with hats for the Saturday afternoon soiree. No matter if your party is for a big crowd or your own family, here’s all you need to know to host a tea party. This is also a great theme for a birthday party, a neighborhood party or a fund-raiser for your local school or church. Getting dressed up is half of the fun so invite guests to dress in their Sunday best and encourage them to go all out by competing for prizes in a best hat contest. 

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Invite guests to dress in their Sunday best. At this party, families coordinated their colors and styles. Prizes were given for best hat!

Invite guests to dress in their Sunday best. At this party, families coordinated their colors and styles. Prizes were given for best hat!

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THE FOOD

A proper afternoon tea includes both savory and sweet treats. Menu items include tiny tea sandwiches like egg salad, cucumber or watercress, savory cheese puffs and warm scones served with butter, jam, and Devonshire cream. You can find Devonshire cream at Whole Foods and upscale markets. Petit fours, cookies, and other delicate cakes are always the finale of high tea. While this isn’t a  day you want to worry about calories, do include a few healthy choices like fruit for those guests dedicated to eating healthy or with dietary concerns. Include an assortment of flavored teas for the kids; they like fruit flavored or spice tea varieties. If you don’t want to make or bake yourself, buy everything you need at the bakery and grocery. Use an electric tea kettle to bring water to a boil quickly; it makes pouring the scalding water into your teapots much easier, too.

Mother Daughter Tea Party theme by Martie Duncan

Try some of my easy recipes for your party: Classic Cheese Puffs, Ham Delights, Puff Pastry Palmiers, Strawberry Napoleons, Raspberry Lemonade and Zippy Two Cheese Pimento Cheese.

DECORATIONS

This is a marvelous reason to break out the good china! If you don’t have enough china, borrow from your friends and mix and match the patterns. A tea  party isn’t terribly expensive and if you don’t feel like cooking, you don’t have to. Use tiered trays stacked with colorful cakes, cookies, and pretty sandwiches as centerpieces. You really don’t need anything more since there will be quite a lot loaded onto your tables. If you want to add flowers and don’t have a lot of extra room, just place flowers directly on or under serving pieces.

Mother Daughter Tea Party theme Martie Duncan

ENTERTAINMENT

Plan a few games for all ages including a best hat contest with winners in biggest, most creative and most unusual hat categories. Prizes can be chocolates, teapots and other tea accessories. Another game for all ages is “what’s in Mom’s purse?” This is a type of seated scavenger hunt. Unusual items are called out and the first person to dig the item out of their purse wins a prize. The typical movie stub and bank receipt were obviously easy finds, but I was shocked when moms actually pulled a map of Paris, a curling iron, an unused birthday card, and a pineapple “dum-dum” sucker out of their purses!

Great fun for a crowd of fifty or a group of four, this type of party can easily be used as a fund-raising event for a club, school, church or community or a fun Saturday activity for you and your favorite little girl.